Showing posts with label America. Show all posts
Showing posts with label America. Show all posts

Friday, August 11, 2017

Apple Pie and Aliens

I stepped out of my house and into a Norman Rockwell painting.

Sunday's weather was unusually comfortable for an early August afternoon in Iowa, if a bit overcast. A few clouds were turning dark around the edges, making the sky look slightly ominous, while keeping the temperature in the mid-70s.

I chatted in passing with a neighbor working in her yard. Her hanging baskets overflow with beautiful flowers every year, filling me with envy and awe, as I struggle to keep hostas alive. We both grew up in a small town barely 12 miles away. Our current hometown high school and former hometown high school were arch rivals back then, and, as we were both cheerleaders, switching loyalty between the two would have been unthinkable. But a mom's first allegiance is to her children. We both wear t-shirts emblazoned with the current hometown school's mascot – requisite small-town boosterism.

I hiked down the dirt path snaking through the farm field that separates our subdivision from the town proper. The field was all grown up in weeds this year, although whether it was purposely allowed to lie fallow, or if the farmer just grew tired of people tramping through his corn and beans, I do not know. I do know the path moved a few feet to the west this year, skirting the worst of the erosion-carved ruts, particularly at the bottom of the hill.

As I emerged from the last of the weeds and scrub brush, a car pulled to a stop in the middle of the street ahead. A woman stood curbside, keeping one eye on a wobbly toddler, while visiting with the car's driver. I walked down the block, turned the corner, and still did not see any traffic that would disrupt them.

The streets were not entire deserted. I watched as a statistically correct family bicycled by in a neat line -- Dad, followed by Duckling One, Duckling Two, and Mom. On the next block, a small group of small kids played a game of driveway basketball. The “poing” of the ball echoed between the houses, as their shots fell short of the regulation-height hoop.

The dogs in this neighborhood are familiar with me, yet still bark a welcome and signal my approach to the dogs on the next block over, which they relay to the next, and so on.

I headed up another hill, this one covered by carefully manicured lawns. This street was part of the Hometown Days parade route the day before, yet not a speck of post-parade debris remains. American flags flutter from every porch or yard, many the result of a Lion's Club fundraiser/patriotic service project.

I listened as the wail of a siren grow louder and nearer as I approached the nursing home, then breathed a sigh of relief when the flashing lights stopped at the top of the hill, near the water tower. By the time I arrived, firemen were exiting the water treatment plant – a building not much bigger than a single-car garage. A few neighbors, drawn outside by the commotion, were heading home as the firemen repacked their gear. I recognized most – some by name, others by face.

It doesn't get much more “Our Town” than this, I think. I doesn't get much more Apple Pie, much more Red, White and Blue than this. Every Midwestern stereotype, every All-American, small-town cliché is played out here in my hometown. It is movie-set perfect.

So why do I find myself wishing for an alien invasion?


Wednesday, November 9, 2016

It's Still Morning in America

In a surprise move, the sun came up this morning.

The same as it would have regardless of who was elected President of the USA. The same as it does every day.

Suck it up, Buttercup.

Do you really believe that one person can change the nation over night? Or in four years?

You're right.

YOU CAN.

Quit whining, quit gloating. Roll up your sleeves and get to work.

Wondering what to tell your children or grandchildren?

Tell them to be honest, be kind, be fair, be considerate, be polite. Tell them to have good character. Respect others. Don't be a bully. Tell them to be nice to people even when people are not nice to you. And maybe, once in a while, you should try to figure out why those people aren't being nice to you. Because maybe, once in a while, it's YOU who is not being nice. And maybe, once in a while, it's YOU who needs to change.

And maybe not. Life is not fair.

Tell them “ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country." Tell them to be one of “a thousand points of light.”

Worried about the homeless, the poor, the hungry? Volunteer your time at a homeless shelter, donate your money to a reputable charity. Want to make college affordable? Establish a scholarship or donate to a scholarship fund (or adopt my children). Worried about the environment? Reduce your waste, recycle, plant a tree. Worried about gun control? Don't buy a gun, be a responsible gun owner, enforce the laws that are already in place, restrict access to your own guns. Worried about American jobs and American wages? Support American companies, buy local, support businesses that support their workers, start your own business. Worried about affordable health care? Become a doctor or a nurse, volunteer at a clinic, stop going to the emergency room for a hangnail, eat less, exercise more, get vaccines, wash your hands, promote healthy living. Be PRO-active, not RE-active.

Quit whining, quit gloating, quit assigning blame. Quit telling me why you can't. Tell me how you did it. Quit mocking, ridiculing and name calling. Put on your big girl/boy pants and deal with it. Be an adult. Be better than most adults.

Quit looking to the government to solve our problems.

Roll up your sleeves and get to work. Lead, follow, or get the hell out of the way.

Be a force for POSITVE change. Work to BUILD not to DESTROY.

Wondering what to tell your children or grandchildren?

Tell them you love them.

Don't tell them anything. Show them. Set a good example.